One Bucket at a Time
Happy New Year! Are you making any resolutions? Of the various challenges I set myself last year, I seem to have been successful in keeping one: getting back into voluntary work. I have now been working at the Oakleaf CafĂ© for over a year, and at the Sue Ryder shop for ten months. In both cases, there were times when I got stressed or close to a meltdown and felt like storming off, and had to take time off until I’d calmed down – but I came back. So I do seem to be getting marginally better at controlling my temper and keeping a sense of proportion. On balance, it seems to be more helpful to have general aspirations than specific rules. This afternoon, PDB11 and I have been discussing what we hope to do in the next year, and jotting down intentions like ‘Go for walks more,’ ‘Hoping to go on European holiday by public transport – practise language skills,’ ‘Be more sociable,’ and so on. Making rules like ‘At least one all-day walk pe...