One Bucket at a Time
Happy New Year!   Are you making any resolutions?   Of the various challenges I set myself last year, I seem to have been successful in keeping one: getting back into voluntary work.   I have now been working at the Oakleaf CafĂ©  for over a year, and at the Sue Ryder shop   for ten months.   In both cases, there were times when I got stressed or close to a meltdown and felt like storming off, and had to take time off until I’d calmed down – but I came back.   So I do seem to be getting marginally better at controlling my temper and keeping a sense of proportion.   On balance, it seems to be more helpful to have general aspirations than specific rules.   This afternoon, PDB11  and I have been discussing what we hope to do in the next year, and jotting down intentions like ‘Go for walks more,’ ‘Hoping to go on European holiday by public transport – practise language skills,’ ‘Be more sociable,’ and so on.   Making rules like ‘At least one all-day walk pe...