Letter to my Penpal

Dear Michael,

Happy Father’s Day, Emancipation Day, and First Sunday after Trinity Sunday.  Father’s Day is the easiest to remember, as it’s the same date in Britain as it is in America, even though we celebrate Mother’s Day on different dates. 

I hope you enjoy having phone conversations with your sons.  If they want you to call them from prison every week, I think it’s a good idea to do that.  If they were worried about how to pay the phone bill, they’d have told you.  And they’re probably disappointed that they weren’t able to come and visit you, with Father’s Day and your birthday coming up, because of the Covid outbreak.

I didn’t know about 19th June being Emancipation Day in America until today, when I had an email from the Innocence Project explaining that

Today, Juneteenth, is the day we celebrate “Emancipation Day” in the United States. It’s the day that Union soldiers reached Galveston, Texas, bringing with them the news that the Civil War was over and all enslaved people were now free.

Though they arrived nearly two and a half years after President Lincoln’s Emancipation Proclamation, the news still had not reached Texas, where hundreds of thousands of people continued to work as slaves. But on June 19, 1865, the last remaining slaves in the defeated Confederate states were finally freed.

[I can safely say this much in my email to Michael.  But I’m not supposed to criticise the prison he is in, in case it leads to him being treated worse.  In the version of this letter that I can print on my blog, however, I can quote the rest of the Innocence Project’s email to me:

Six months later, the 13th Amendment was ratified, which abolished slavery in the form of one person owning another as property, but allowed slavery “as punishment for crime.”

Those words allowed incarcerated people to be used as free and forced labor after slavery was formally abolished, and they still enable free and cheap prison labor to be exploited to this day.

Nowhere is the legacy and evolution of slavery in this country clearer than in places like Parchman Farm in Mississippi and Louisiana’s Angola farm. Both are prisons built on former slave plantations.

Angola, you see, is the prison where Michael himself is held.  Well, let’s see what I can say:]

The Innocence Project’s email carried a link to an article about three wrongly convicted men who were in Angola Prison, who finally managed to prove their innocence and were freed.

 [I can’t include the link in Michael’s email – he doesn’t have internet access for anything except a special email service for prisoners.  But then, Michael doesn’t need to read the Innocence Project’s reports to know that prisoners are forced to work for just a few cents per hour, when he wants to work for a normal wage and pay tax like a normal person.

I have no idea whether Michael himself is innocent or not.  My previous penpal, Walt Ogrod, was another prisoner who, after decades in prison for a murder he didn’t commit, was eventually freed after DNA testing proved his innocence.  But Michael hasn’t said anything about what he is in prison for, nor whether he did it or not, and I don’t intend to ask.  All I know is that he has some things in his past that he’s not proud of, and that he’s working on turning his life around in prison.]

But thirdly, in the Anglican Church, it’s the First Sunday after Trinity Sunday.  The reading in church today (Galatians 3:23 to 4:7) seemed to bring the themes of emancipation and fatherhood together:

Before the coming of this faith, we were held in custody under the law, locked up until the faith that was to come would be revealed.  So the law was our guardian until Christ came that we might be justified by faith.  Now that this faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian.

So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.  There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.  If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.

What I am saying is that as long as an heir is underage, he is no different from a slave, although he owns the whole estate.  The heir is subject to guardians and trustees until the time set by his father.  So also, when we were underage, we were in slavery under the elemental spiritual forces of the world.  But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that we might receive adoption to sonship.  Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, “Abba, Father.”  So you are no longer a slave, but God’s child; and since you are his child, God has made you also an heir.

Our vicar’s sermon was mostly about how God’s grace means that God will not punish us as our sins deserve.  I thought, ‘Yes, but God offers us so much more than JUST not being punished!’  But sometimes, hearing a sermon that doesn’t really seem to go far enough makes me think for myself about what I’d say if I was the one preaching.

When I read the words ‘as long as an heir is underage, he is no different from a slave,’ at first it makes me think, ‘What kind of parent treats their child like a slave?  What does Paul mean by suggesting that God is like that?’  I imagine an abusive parent, like the mother in A Child Called It, who starves and tortures her child, treats him as subhuman, won’t call him by name, forbids other children to talk to him, and forces him to do all the housework.  And I wonder why anyone who gave their child that sort of abusive upbringing would expect their child to be suddenly able to cope with inheriting their estate and manage it responsibly.

But I’m sure that isn’t at all what St Paul meant.  Paul was writing in the Roman Empire, a culture that accepted slavery as normal, and of course I’m not saying that slavery is ever justifiable.  But not all forms of slavery in history have been as brutal and degrading as the ones we think of today, such as the enslavement of black people by white people up until the 19th century, or in Nazi concentration camps, or the hidden labour of people illegally trafficked into slavery today. 

The Romans weren’t trying to fool themselves that some people were ‘racially inferior’ and too stupid to be anything other than manual labourers.  They weren’t trying to prevent slaves from learning to read and write – in fact, many teachers WERE slaves, educating freeborn children.  In the analogy that Paul draws, the ‘guardian’ who has authority over the child heir until he grows up would probably be a slave himself.  And also, rich people who didn’t have a child to inherit their property would often adopt an intelligent and competent slave to be their heir.

So I suppose that what Paul is saying is not that God is an abusive parent who treats His children like slaves, but the opposite: that even though, in a sense, God does own us, because He created us, God chooses not to treat us like property.  God is a master who frees His slaves and adopts them as His heirs.  And that this is even though God, unlike the sort of rich Roman master who might do this, already HAS a Son, but chooses to adopt us to be His sons and daughters alongside Jesus.  And since God does this for everyone who is willing to accept Him, then human distinctions based on status or ethnicity no longer make sense – so how can there be any justification for one human being owning another?

When we are young children, we are not free, not because our parents want to exploit us for their own gain, but because we aren’t responsible enough to do things like handle kitchen knives or cross roads on our own, until our parents have taught us how to do it safely.  As we grow up, we go from being bound by rules like ‘Never touch sharp things!’ and ‘Never cross roads on your own!’ to understanding why we need to be careful in dealing with knives and roads.  In the same way, Paul is saying, being freed from rigid legalism isn’t a licence to do stupid and irresponsible things.

The other thing I find strange about Paul’s analogy is that the ‘heir’ in Paul’s story is an orphan, who legally owns the whole estate because his father died and left it to him.  But God isn’t dead.  So the question now becomes ‘What kind of parent hands their kids over to foster-carers as babies, and only have personal contact with them when they’re older?’

Well, biological parents don’t, of course, or not willingly (I realise that sometimes you don’t have any choice).  But adoptive parents might well be taking on children who have been looked after by foster carers for months or even years after being separated from their original parents.

And sometimes, the reason children are taken away from their biological parents is that their birth parents were neglecting and abusing them.  If so, they are likely to be traumatised by their past experiences, and often don’t know how they are expected to behave.  So part of the foster carer’s job might be (for example) to teach them how to feel safe and secure, and know that they will be fed regularly and don’t need to steal food to survive, but also that it isn’t okay to bite people.  This way, the hope is that by the time they find their ‘forever family’, they will have formed a more healthy idea than their biological parents could have taught them of what being part of a family means.

So I suppose Paul is also saying, ‘We are messed up by having been born into a messed-up world, and so religion is here to teach us basic rules of how to behave.  But don’t forget that religion isn’t our forever family.  Only our loving Heavenly Father and His Son are that.’

Michael, don’t forget that you don’t just bear the name of an archangel.  You actually are God’s son, and no-one can take that away from you.

God bless you,

Your friend

Temple

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